GROWING TOGETHER WITH MARK WILLIAM

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 May 22, 2022


Mark William is one of the guys that I was deeply blessed to meet personally. I not only feel loved by him, but he is like my childhood friend, even though we met when we were 19 and 20, I see myself and him growing together to be better human beings. One for the money, two for the show, three to make ready, and four to go, here we’re, ready to start a new life as husband and wife.

We’ve been together for six years, I know him much everything, accept his past, be grateful for today, and crave for life forever with Mark. He has a huge heart for chasing dreams, I know he is playing video games a lot, but I know and I believe that he is someone who works really hard for anything he wants. When we were in college, I adore how he can be focused on his projects, getting things done perfectly, and being extra. That’s the first thing that I adore about him.

Mark is someone who is clearly, perfectly, and blatantly, accepting the circumstance to the fullest yet trying all of any possibility to change it. He knows ‘it is what it is’ but he pursues to be dynamic with all the circumstances. He sees himself as an artist of his life, just like his motto ‘captain of my soul’, your life is depending on you, you decide it, every little step in this life, you decide it.

Mark also always reminds me to consume good things only in my mind. Stay sane is the most important thing in this insane world, he said. I also believe this, if we radiate positive things to our body, mind, and soul, positive things will come, even a nice stranger come to your rough day. He is a good place to get a wake-up call whenever I need it so much, he does not only say a good thing and sweet like “ahh, babe, you can through this” or “it’s okay, just be patient”, he will slap me in my face just to remind me and wake me up that shit will come and give the good advice on how to face it.

We share a lot about our thoughts, and most of it we see something from the same perspective. We sometimes have different ideas, but it doesn’t make us condescending to each other. We talk about it, we agree to disagree, and just see it as a spectrum in our relationship.

But, you know what makes Mark unique? His discount radar is on the top of the world! He will get many things discounted in a way I couldn’t find. That’s what makes him special from all above good things I’ve said. Haha.

XOXO,

NADILA ISLAMIATY

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