ROMANTISISASI PRIA

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 Aku rasa apa yang dia lakukan padaku lain

Aku melihat caranya menatapku begitu dalam, sehingga aku merasa tenggelam

Aku selalu memikirkannya setiap kali aku hanya terdiam dan sendiri dengan pikiranku

Aku terlalu berusaha untuk menghapus emosi ini, respon terhadap segala yang kau lakukan

Teman perempuanku berkata, mungkin kau suka

Teman perempuanku berkata, kita adalah dua bintang yang serasi

Teman perempuanku berkata, kau selalu tersenyum jika berbicara denganku

Teman perempuanku ternyata, hanya meromantisisasikan segala perbuatanmu

Karena..

Kamu hanya manusia yang baik dan santai

Kamu hanya tidak ada perasaan yang mengait padaku

Kamu hanya melihatku sebagai manusia yang baik dan santai juga

Kamu hanya tidak memiliki reaksi yang sama dengan apa yang aku rasakan

Meromantisisasi pria adalah kegemaran para Wanita

Menganggap apa-apa yang mereka lakukan adalah tanda dari cinta

Padahal banyak sekali hal yang selalu pria anggap sebagai gurauan

Melibatkan suatu hal yang sangat rentan bagi Wanita, yaitu perasaan

This is a kindly reminder for girls that not every nice thing boys do to us means that he’s into you. He is just being nice to you and others, let's just think that everything comes very neutral, and you have to accept it as something neutral too to your body and mind. I won't let you fall because you just think that he's into you but the truth is he is just being nice to us.

Xoxo, Nadila J. 

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